5 Tips for Flirting!

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5 Tips for Successful Flirting

• Use Open Loops
• Say “No”
• Sexual Innuendos
• You Choose
• Tease, Tease, Tease!

I know, I know...“Explanation, please!”

Is that was you just said?  Don’t worry I’m going to explain the 5 flirting lines and technqiues and I’m going to give you Flirting signals and examples so you can see it in action.  No matter what you think of each of these, keep in mind that I understand women, I know what makes them tick and I use these tips all the time.  They are amazing. (Dating for Advice!)

 

  
Back to the Tips…

An Open Loop is a conversation topic that YOU don’t finish right away if at all.  In her mind these Open Loops cause tension because most guys close every loop they open for fear of looking uninterested, dull or dumb.  But by closing them they do exactly what they are trying to avoid…

This isn’t mumbo-jumbo.  Just try it! (Tip for Flirting!)

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Example:  If she asks your name…rather than answer, tell a story (Flirting Signals!) that ends with your name.  Even better if it ends with a nickname...that opens another loop! (Flirting Lines !)

Her:     What’s your name?
You:    Listen to this… After I was born but still in the hospital my mother and my father got into this big argument about whether my name should be John or Darius.  Keep in mind my dad is psychotic!  My mom was set on Darius, he’s this King that almost conquered the world a billion years ago… of course you don’t know…but my Dad was screaming at her over the phone that he would kill her if she put that on the birth certificate.  He was in jail. I’m pretty sure he was serious because he…  Is your hair really blonde or do you dye it?
Her:     [?]

She will try to close the Open Loop.(Seduction Secret!)  

You can do a million things from here.  However if you leave a few of the conversation loops open throughout your time with her she will be much more likely to remember everything that goes on between the start and finish of each loop.   And she will attach added importance to you, without even realizing! (Flirt Tip!)

It’s science by the way…they tested waiters… Waiters remember everything from the time they take the order until they serve the food…then it’s all a blank. 

Open Loops keep tension up (which is Good!) and the tension keeps her at-tension on you completely…not on her phone or the guy behind the bar.

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This is very similar to an Open Loop because it creates unresolved tension in a woman. (Flirting Signals!)   If you want to know why tension is good - it's in my book.  Women are used to men saying, “Yes.”  The better looking they are the more they are used to it.  When you say “No” you cause them to mentally come to a screeching halt. (Flirting Techniques!)

When you say “No” to a woman she is programmed to want to change that to a “Yes”.  Especially if she is attracted to you.  She experiences a unique feeling of danger when you say “No” to her which causes her to want to change your mind.   

And that’s right where you want her. (Flirting Lines! - that's right!)

            Example:  You’re with a girl at an ice cream parlor.

            Her:  Try that one.
            You:  No.
            Her:  [?]

She might do a number of different things in this situation… laugh, frown, tell you that was rude, ignore it, try to explain why she was suggesting it in the first place, or change the subject.  What ever she does…know that you’ve introduced tension.  Now she will want to alleviate it. 

This is unconscious and out of her control.  It just happens.  To every girl.  Every time. (Flirting Lines!) If this scares you and you want to make it a little more safe, just smile when you say it.  When you smile she knows how you want her to respond…with a smile of her own. 

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This means you turn something ‘innocent’ into something sexual. 

Example… “Oh, you like spears, huh?”

You have to be very careful with these.  But not for the reason that most guys think.  The normal thinking is… that you might offend her.   The real reason is… women use sexual innuendos to control the situation. That kills Attraction!

If a woman is controlling the situation she is enjoying the SITUATION not YOU.  That means she is reliving the past.  For a woman to feel deep attraction for you there must be nothing else in her mind but this moment. 

If she is reliving the past or imagining the future you’ve lost her.  What this means is that you don’t have a powerful enough presence to keep her anchored in the present.   Which means she is not attracted to you enough that she feels she has to really pay attention so she can make it work. (Flirting Signals !)

When do you use them, you ask?  You don’t.  And you blunt hers by telling her to “control herself.”
           
            Example:  Talking with a slightly drunk girl in the club.
            Her:     I love guns.  They get me excited.
            You:    Control yourself!  I just met you…(smile)
            Her:     [?]

But once she says something like that… you’ve got her!  What’s the next step?  Movement. Why?  It's in my book but you can trust me.

Use her Sexual Innuendos to your advantage!

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Every time there is a choice to be made…  You make it.  If she chooses something just say, “No” or choose something else.  It will knock her for a loop and cause tension to rise.  But unlike the others…this will not continue to cause tension.  After she becomes used to you choosing (it happens pretty fast) then whenever you choose it will ease her tension.  This is also good.  (Flirting Lines!)

Anytime something happens with tension…good.  If you can’t affect her tension level then you can’t affect her. (Flirting Signals!)

Example…  You show up to a date and she’s already sitting at a table.
You:  I don’t like this table.  Let’s go sit at the bar. 

If there is no where else to sit then you don’t like the place and let’s go across the street.  The person who chooses is very powerful for women.  Make sure it’s you.

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Here’s where the first 4 tips really pay off!  Because of the tension you’ve caused she is in a state of unease.  She isn’t sure that you like her… (Why is this good?  Read my book!!!!!)  She is ready - the flirting has turned into attraction now she wants the attraction to turn into seduction!

 

Now that you have her here you indicate that you are actually interested in her by...

...teasing her. 

 

Why not compliment, you ask?

A compliemnt will actually decrease her attraction as I talk about in my book.

            Example:  You’re with her and you’ve done 1 through 4…

            Her:  I don’t know, I just don’t like pepperoni.
            You:  That’s un-American.
            Her:  (she laughs) I know but I don’t.  What do you do?
            You:  None of your business. 
            Her:  Seriously!
            You:  I can’t tell you…you’re one of THOSE girls!
            Her:  What kind of girl?
            You:  Did you see Shrek?  You kind of look like Fiona.
            Her:  When she was ugly!?!
            You:  Look at your nose…(laugh)

            And so on…

Teasing really, really pays off when you’ve set it up.  Of course it works all the time but when she’s feeling a high level of tension it works a hundred times better. (Flirting Techniques!)

Note: Tension can get too high - don't communicate "Serial Killer" that will cause more tension than you can work with - and if you can't turn it to attraction her instincts will force her to flee...

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