Surviving an Affair

I’ve been divorced.  It was devastating, I can tell you that much.  "Affairs Marriage"I they go hand in hand. Often guys are confused after relationships, I know I was “down” for a long time afterward trying to figure out what direction I should move in. I wasn't interested in infidelity signs or infidelity statistics either!

It was long before I was ready to accept the "Marriage Trust Theory" but when I did it helped a lot. Anytime after relationships I would never do anything. I was by turns angry, "down", and resentful. I would read a lot of things but most of it didn't help. It was all very vague and would tell me to "be positive" and "carry yourself with confidence" while searching for Infidelity signs, but those things didn't mean anything to me. They didn't help! (How to Surviving Affair!)

 

I’ve met a lot of guys after relationships in the exact same position but what I often see is that this “down” time becomes part of them.... They turn away from the Marriage Trust Theory. What is the Marriage Trust Theory?

Alpha Method: You always trust because you don't care enough to be distrustful. That is negative and the Alpha Male is never negative.

This is based on the Repulstion Attraction Theory you can read elsewhere on this site. Infidelity Signs only mean you're not creating enough attraction.

Basically it says that if you push her away, as in, "I trust you because I don't care if you cheat" and then you attract her, as in Tips for Flirting - then you will create so much Attraction she will be unable to control herself and will do everything she can to please you!

Back to Surviving an Affair!

Even five and ten years later this “down” behavior after relationships is part of who they are.  They still love football, or chess, or poker, or whatever but everything is experienced through this “down” feeling.  Often they replace the feeling of love with some kind of “down” feeling. They think Infidelity Signs are a way of life and accept being one of the Infidelity Statistics is just the way it is... Yuck!

Often times, after relationships , if the guy is able, he visits a therapist to try and get past it.  I don't do "How to Therapy!" I can NOT help with therapy of any kind.  I am not a therapist.  Nor am I interested in dealing with any kind of “down” behavior.  If you want to wade through that mess you’re going to have to find a therapist. Here are some links...

 

But I can give you How to Surviving Affair and let you adopt a Marriage Trust frame of mind. You should start out by thinking of me as a basketball coach…only with girls. I'm here to help you after relationships with tips for flirting, dating advice and seduction secrets. You'll forget all about Infidelity signs and statistics and with the help of the Alpha Method I teach on this site and the How to Woman Tutorials... you can easily utilize the Repulsion Attraction Theory to obtain the Marriage Trust Theory. (I know... a lot of theories... I like the word... but these are facts created from science... hence the word science. Learn to become amazing with women through science!)

After Relationships most people don’t realize is… if you correct yourself with women…you’re actually just correcting yourself.  (That's Marriage Trust Theory) When you pick up a new habit…one that requires you to fill up a large amount of time…other habits will be forgotten.  They will be left behind. 

I can’t help you with your bad habits.  But I can help you with new, exciting habits that will help you with women.  Sound like something you might be interested in? 

Focusing on Infidelity Signs allows you to keep some very bad behavior that will ensure that you fail with women. Don't become one of the Infidelity Statistics... stop right now and start reading Tips for Flirting... right now!

Of course you’ll want to go back to your “down” behavior.  I’m not concerned with any “down” behavior.  There's no attraction being created there. That behavior is about reliving the past.  What I want each person to concentrate on is “right now”.  You can work on the past with a therapist.

 

You can’t tease a woman in the past… it’s already.. “done and gone.”  Nor can you do anything in the future.  But “The Future” is where so many guys try to do things with women.  You can’t touch a woman in the future, nor make her laugh or smile. 

That’s reserved for the “right now”. 

I know you think you need a plan to succeed after marriage.  I like to say you need “Planned Action.”  Pick up any self help book and you’ll see… their plan involves you doing things… not day dreaming them.  Action results in fun… and action is attractive to women.  Just being in action is far more attractive to women than a man who is “planning”. 

Right now you can make a girl laugh.  Right now you can make a girl attracted.  And right now you can kiss a girl.  Only right now.  All your plans for the future are just that…nothing but an idea.  When you try to do things in the past or future you are submitting to fear… instead, as Nike so eloquently advertises… Just do it.  Right now. 

I promise you that if you take up the habit of becoming great with women…you will leave behind so much you didn’t need. 

Start with Flirting or Internet Dating.

You’re about to start something exciting!

 

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