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--- My Reviews on FREE and Pay dating sites (Reading time: 13 mins 37 seconds)
--- Refusing to Apologize IS the best way to Apologize! (Reading time: 3 mins 12 seconds)
--- Wondering Eyes are trouble! (Reading time: 1 min 57 seconds)
--- Sex for the First Time? (Reading time: 6 mins 19 seconds)
--- What's her sign? Use it to seduce her! (Reading Time: 3 mins 41 seconds)
--- Clothes Make the Man (Reading Time: 2 mins 50 seconds)
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Here's a little Sex Guide that I looked into that has some pretty good advice.
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Dating over the internet is hard. It’s easy to sign up for a free or cost dating site… it’s easy to put up a picture and type out some things you like… maybe answer a list of questions. Check some boxes and choose some options…
The hard part is actually getting a date! (use Advice for Dating and How to Woman Tutorials! )
But that’s everyone’s goal.
There everyone is… wanting a date… and for most people it’s just not happening. They wonder if it’s them. They wonder what people don’t like about them and why they can’t seem to find someone they are attracted to.
Dating Sites –
Free Dating Sights are Free…so don’t expect too much. Most of them don’t have the members to really make them viable but there are a couple that are pretty nice. The thing is… because they are free they don’t hold sway over you… you can write an email to someone right after you sign up.
The bad news is… you can write an email to someone right after you sign up. Hahahahaha. If you don’t know what you’re doing… You’ll crash and burn.
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I recommend starting at Flirting
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Okay, back to the Dating Sites ALREADY!!!!
First, there are a couple of these sites that have a partner link which means I’ll make some money if you click it and sign up for the service. I’ll always warn you (of course I’d appreciate the kickback!) and I won’t send you there just because I’ll make a few bucks.
I’ll give you the good and the bad…and if I haven’t used the site I’ll ask around and give you a friend’s opinion and if I can’t find a friend that’s used it…I’ll say that and you’re on your own.
Some FREE sites…
(by the way I don’t get a kickback from these free sites…but give them a shot…they’re FREE!)
Ok Cupid…
Good site…good pool of girls. Easy to use and easy to sign up. Oh, and it’s really free. Some dating sites start out completely free…use that time to try and build up a client base and then start charging. Let me know if this happens…so I can change the list.
Tip-top free dating site. Lots of thumbs up and almost no complaints...just the "I can't get any responses" complaints which means... "no Game"
Plenty of Fish…
Online Dating Service featuring photo personals, chat, messaging, ratings, advice etc
Simple sight. Really simple. Seems to cover everything without interfering too much. This Free Dating Site is pretty ideal if you’re comfortable meeting…and forwarding relationships all on your own. (There are other sites…down the list…that lend a “helping” hand)
Everyone that’s used this one…says it’s bare bones but great. I like bare bones…I don’t need to be “introduced” I’ll do that on my own!
I have used this one and know for sure that it's ligit... 100% met lots of women off of it...never experienced a "fake" profile... although I'm sure there must be at least a couple? Good free dating site with some dating advice.
You and Me…
Yeah, it’s not a dot com (.com) it’s a dot me (.me) whatever that means. I haven’t used this one but I have reports that its free and there are enough girls onboard to make it interesting.
No one I can find has used this site.
Date Hook-up…
This one repeats over and over that it’s free. Must be free! Send me some reviews I can post if you use this site or any of the others I haven’t used. It has a number it claims represents the number of women online… over 4,000 at the time of research. Who knows? (This is like a dating directory!)
No one I can find as used this site. (If you use it – send me a review!)
Singles Net
Has a LOT of members. You don’t need a credit card to sign up and it maintains that it is free, free, free. It claims it isn’t one of those supposed free sites that is free right up to the point you want to talk to a girl… then you have to pay.
Here's a complaint page against them...apparently they send fake "flirts" to get you to move up to a paying level. Also have lots of members who are scammers and such. Read complaints.
Remember!
Work the free sites... they are free. Don't just use the pay sites. The pay sites make things much easier because women are more trusting because there is a gateway (fees) but the free sites are free!!!! Instead if you have the dough...
Join three free sites and one maybe two pay sites. Don't spend money you don't have! I've done a couple pay sites... with my Alpha Method I can use their system which often limits contact to pre-qualify myself really easily.... where as... with free systems... since they are bare bones...which means contact is not controlled... I have to have strong game from the first email or chat session. I'm fine with that. But I wasn't always fine with that.
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Pay Sites
Pay sites…they always offer more members…sometimes in the millions because women feel more secure paying a dating service. Plus, they’re suspicious of guys who won’t kick up $50 - $100 bucks for them…that’s the way they see it!
Pay with a PRE-paid credit card... ALWAYS!!!!!!
Here (with research) are some dating sites...
NOTE: The links below are "partner" links which means if you sign up... they'll throw me a few bucks. Anything helps!
If, after signing up for one of these services through my link, you find yourself in "financial trouble" and don't want to pay for my book... shoot me an email and we can work something out for the book. (I'll be in a good mood since they kick me down a couple bucks for you signing up...if you go through the link on this page!)
After all... if you don't have the book...how can you use and abuse the sites?
Remember - when you first sign up to a pay site...most of them deliver matches...these are all bogus. I think they all do it... Don't even bother to answer them. I know you want to...I'm just saying you'd be wasting your time.
Note:
If any site keeps charging you for even 1 extra month after you cancel... call your bank and cancel your card! It's that easy. If you have auto payment sytems you'll have to redo each of them... but I hate getting rebilled for something I am not using! And it's hard to get your money back.
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Here we go!
Match.com - Everyone knows someone who met on Match.com. Now it’s your turn. Search Now
Match has some complaints... it seems from the complaint that Match makes an effort to solve the problem...which is reasonable considering the number of members they have. The biggest complaint was people's accounts being "blocked" for breaking their rules.
I liked the complaints I did read as it always seemed like Match was trying to placate them. Most of the offensive sites just ignore you. That's the worst!
I like this one.
SugarDaddie.com
Dating for Successful Men & Gorgeous Single Women. Join Sugardaddie.com.
You get the idea...as a guy... you need to have some loot. If you do...there are some really hot gold diggers on this site. Jump on this grenade if you've got the cash or you can fake it!
Did several searches and couldn't find any complaints. I'm sure they are out there...but usually if it's bad...they are easy to find.
Good luck.
Chemistry.com (not linking to it...)
Lots of complaints for this one... I'm starting to think almost all of these sites will stick it to you... if they can. Several cases of people getting charged after cancelling and not being matched with people they specified to be matched with and strong suspicians of getting "contacts" with bots or "employees" who would show interest and then stop all contact.
Lavalife
purchase credits rather than monthly membership. It costs credits to send emails and winks or whatever they call them. It can be cheaper...and it can be more expensive if you're sending a lot of emails. Good back up option.
I've screened a bunch of complaints and they are the usual... "I didn't get any responses" type. I disregard these as they usually indicate lack of Game rather than anything on Lava's part.
This one doesn't have the usual ranters like so many of the websites I've checked out...so I approve...
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Friend Finder
these guys have an array of "Friend Finder" sites... "Korean Friend Finder", "Adult Friend Finder", "Church Friend Finder" and the list goes on. They have one of those HUGE numbers they advertise as their member total.
I've found some money related complaints. From their size I'd assume there would have to be... but I can't find any count of how many.
Careful is all I'm saying here.
E Harmony.com
Let’s get Eharmony.com over with…
I’m not even going to link to it…every one of my friends that have used it…and don’t like it. Eharmony completely controls the process from start to finish…it takes a while and is frustrating. A few of the girls I’ve talked to say they have NOT been satisfied with the dates they have been “ordered” to take.
Plus the have a buch of complaints!! None of the people I talked to experienced a rebill after the canceled but since people don't seem to go for so much control
Pay with a PRE-paid credit card... ALWAYS!!!!!!
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