Attraction Right Now!

Attraction is the central key to EVERY relationship.  If a girl finds you attractive enough…that’s all she needs.  But attraction isn’t about looks.  (Not for her anyway)  Just because you judge girls based on looks doesn’t mean they do the same!  (seduction secrets!)

“What!?!” you’re thinking…  Everyone judges based on looks.

NOT TRUE!!!!

And keep this in mind as well…. NOT TRUE!!!!

ttraction is primal.  It’s at the very heart of every interaction between men and women.  To truly understand why women do what they do you MUST understand attraction.  It isn’t the most important ingredient… It’s the ONLY ingredient!!

Right now I’m sure the more important question is…

What can you do to create attraction…right now!  

• Flirt
• Keep your eyes to yourself
• Don’t rescue her
• Steal her ideas

 

How about that for a list!?!  I’m sure you weren’t expecting that at all.  I bet you’re used to reading those lists from YM magazine telling you, “Ten ways to make her really want you!” and then you read ten things you could have figured out in your sleep. 

Worse…  You’ve probably heard at least half of them in some other article that also didn’t help. 

Let me be clear… Those articles are there to make YOU, the reader, feel better about yourself.  They reafirm your views on women. 

And, by the way, it’s psycho babble…

What's really happening is … they agree with what you think and that makes you feel better.  Everyone likes to hear that they are right! 

But they don’t HELP you WITH WOMEN!!! 

I am offering you something that works.  Something that’s been tested by a lot of guys and it works ALL the time.  But it isn’t for everyone.  Take a look at yourself and decide what it is that you want.  Being attractive to women can be quite scary at first.  For most guys Women are a mystery that they are afraid of. Going after the treasure will involve intense feelings of danger and tension. No REAL WORLD danger but... it will feel real enough.  

A lot of guys don’t want to know how women actually work.  They enjoy thinking that there is a power beyond their understanding at work.  If that’s you, Tips for Flirting with Women might not be your ticket.  I’m going to explain down to the last detail.  Sometimes you’ll even catch yourself thinking…

“Wow, that was easy.”

Back to ATTRACTION!  (I know…I blab sometimes!)

• Flirt
• Keep your eyes to yourself
• Don’t rescue her
• Steal her ideas

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1. Flirt – 

Flirting is the foundation of attraction.  Without it a girl will never truly be attracted to you.  The reason it’s so important... (that's a dating tip!)

Fliirting sends signals to women about how much of an Alpha Male you are.  The more Alpha you are… the more she is attracted to you.  Everything I talk about can be broken down to this simple principle.  (you mean Flirting causes attraction right now? Wow!)

Flirting is such a pure, pleasurable, and exciting activity.  It creates clarity in your mind and the more you do it the more you project a body language that tells women that you’re good at it. 

You know what it means when they think you’re good at flirting, right?  Yup, it means they want to be attracted to you.

 

2. Keep your eyes to yourself –

I’m sure your first conclusion was… that if she catches you looking at other women bad things will happen. 

Not True.

I phrased it that way to show you how you think so you can break away from that weak way of thinking and start thinking in a way that is exciting to women.

What I actually mean when I say to keep your eyes to yourself is… do NOT seek approval from women by looking over to see if what you are saying or doing is okay.  A lot of guys are in the habit of sizing up a situation… seems like a logical thing to do, right?  Take a look – make sure everything is going according to plan.

Not in this case. 

When you look to a woman to judge how you are reacting she knows immediately.  But it’s instinctual.  Her mind probably won’t notice at all but it isn’t her mind that controls her attraction – and it isn’t her mind that controls her decisions. 

From now on you're not ever going to look at her for approval...Guess what? A change will take place inside of her! (Dating Tip!)

This is very hard for some guys to swallow because it’s hard for them to SEE the results, but results ARE happening inside of her.  She will begin to see you as a strong person (which actually means she’s beginning to see more Alpha traits in you!) and thus she will be more willing to be attracted to you.  Create attraction on the inside and her outside will follow.

Create attraction inside out.

 

3. Don’t rescue her

Hmm…  How did your mind react when you read this?  Was there some kind of objection to this idea?  You probably thought this one means something else entirely, like the previous point.  NOPE!  It means what it says.  Don’t rescue her. 

Tension is your friend when you are trying to create attraction right now in a woman. 

How could this be?  You’ve never heard anything like this in your life?  Am I sure I know what I’m talking about?

I am sure.  I know.  Tension is what triggers all her attraction.  When you create tension alarms are going off all over her body. 

But what does this mean? (Tips for Dating!)

It means…  If she says she can’t pay her rent… you say, “I didn’t come over here to listen to your problems.  I came over here to enjoy you.  Is that a problem?”

What happens then, you wonder? 

Well, I answered like no other guy she has ever known.  She must now decide how exactly to respond to me.  She isn’t sure that any of her robotic responses are the right thing to do.  But, she wants everything to be okay so she will search for the right answer.

At the same time her instincts are alerting her that you are displaying Alpha characteristics.  Hmmm, she thinks.  What’s this guy all about?  Why does he think that?  Why didn’t he offer to help me?

She has started a line of thinking called… COMPLIANCE.  A complicated subject but all you need to know is… She feels this new line of thought as ATTRACTION.  I’m sure you can figure out what that means for you, as a guy.  Yeah, she will want to have sex with you.

It doesn’t matter if you’ve known the girl 10 minutes or 10 years.

If she says she likes a guy who opens doors for women… you say, “I don’t open doors for women.”  Or something that indicates that you’re not going to do what she wants you to do. 

Kind of scary, right?  That’s why only a small percentage of guys can create uncontrollable reactions in women.  Because it’s a scary thing to try and do.

If someone misunderstands her in public, don’t rescue her, instead join in, but in a light fun way.  She accidently bumped someone and they told her she was rude as they walked away.  Don’t console her… agree with them.  “Did you bump that guy because he was short?  You don’t like short people?  My mom is short.”

Smile if you need to…so she knows how you expect her to react but don’t say something strong and then look at her to see how she reacts (that would break the previous rule!) 

Don’t try to control the situation… let it flow on its own.  Never try to control a woman… rather give her the option of playing by your rules or leaving and you couldn’t care less which she chooses.

 

4. Steal her ideas –

She already has a list of reactions and a list of things she likes talking about.  What you do is…In a fun or serious way… use them before she can.  Steal them away from her.  She’ll be amazed that you already know how she feels and what she likes.

When you know a woman feels a certain way about a subject… say you feel that way first.  But in a fun, cocky way. 

Do NOT ever do this in a needy way.  That will lead to disaster faster than you could imagine. 

Talk about things she loves before she talks about them. 

What do girls love?  I thought you would never ask… I just happened to have written this really cool little booklet that talks about just that.  And it’s FREE!!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

For instance, using something from the free booklet called… Palm Reading…

Her:     That’s crazy.  It was nice to meet you.

Hold out your hand - she takes it to shake, but you say....

You:    Wow, you have an interesting energy. 

Flip her hand over so you can see “the lines” and use your thumb to trace one of them.  Don’t worry… she’ll ask…

Her:     Do you read palms?
You:    Yeah and I see something really bad.
Her:     What?
You:    I’m just kidding… but see here…

Then I just read her palm.  The thing is… she already believes in palm reading.  All women do.  Even if their mind doesn’t… her body can’t resist a scenario where a potential mate is going to demonstrate a power beyond their understanding .  You are showing Control over her World… very powerful for a woman.

After you have demonstrated control over her world by being an expert in the things she already talks about you can begin to understand how she feels when she suddenly experiences tension… to her tension means she is in danger of losing the very power you are advertising. 

If she thinks your pack is strong enough she will want to join it.  To do so…She must gain your approval.  How does a woman gain a man’s approval?  She compliments him, cooks for him, smiles for him, has sex with him, bears his children for him, cleans for him, and the list goes on, and on, and on. 

Deep Attraction takes practice and knowledge to control but it can be done and it gets easier and easier as you go along.  Having knowledge and control over her world is a powerful step toward building that attraction between you and a woman.

Remember, even if you have trouble in the beginning...it's often enough! You'll be surprised...once you get yourself looking dangerous (wardrobe!) the verbal part is almost too easy!

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