Advice for Dating!

Guys Tips! - The big moment. Guys often think Dating is the most important step to convincing a woman to take a chance with them!  But the worst thing is... a lot of guys experience ANXIETY over what to do on the date.  They didn't want to fail and they didn't want to end up alone. It can be tough.  (like... how to ask girl out! LoL)

We believe we have become very sophisticated, we have microwaves and blenders and the internet... we have created a society, complete with laws, police and figures to protect our rights. We feel safe... but we have lost that link to the caveman inside of us! We have lost touch with the caveman who woulds say, "I want girl!"

Questions to ask girls

Well... first off don't ask them out. (Guys Tips!) That's right... no faster way to lower your value to a girl than asking her out. The right Dates - Ideas don't have the word date involved... Instead "allow" her to hang out...she'll still see it as a "date" but this way YOU will not be less attractive.

Again... in order reactivate that part of you that's essential to creating happiness in a woman. Let your caveman say, "How to ask girl out!"

Hmmmm....Say it out loud.

The "ways to ask girl out"... Remember the Caveman said what he wanted usually directly without manners or anything other influence. And he assumed it would be his. This assumption is one of the things that girls are attracted to. (Tips for Flirting!)

All you have to do is resurrect your inner caveman and you'll make a big change. The best guys tips are going to be tips that you don't recognize as being "good tips."

You will probably be rooted in disbelief for a short time but the answer to "Questions to ask girls" is...

It's a trick question. Be yourself, listen to her, repsect her boundries... these are often forwarded as the answers to those questions. I have discovered that people often do what others are doing. And trying to understand women is no different. As IDates Ideas go... if you listen to the common man's advice you will achieve exactly what common men achieve. You should take a moment to ask yourself if that's what you really want.

IThe mistake in their advice is... they are trying to make a favorable impression on women. Everyday men make these favorable impressions on women and it's this experience that they pass on. They aren't wrong... their advice just has nothing to do with creating attraction in a woman. Favorable Impressions are fantastic for getting women to like you! But if you want a woman to be romantically interested in you... you must create attraction.

"Ways to ask girl out" The implied question is "How can I create a favorable impression on a woman so she will agree to go on a date with me?" But those two things have nothing to do with each other! Creating Attraction is the only way to convince a woman to want to date you.

(so use all my free dating tips!)

I really believe that if I give to others... I will receive throughout my life. I’m here to help. Ways to ask girl out... also implies an arranged exchange of services. You pay for her dinner and in exchange she agrees to consider a relationship wit you. Essentially, you're paying her to like you. I rarely spend more than $5 or $10 dollars on a date.  Usually just the price of my tea.   I never pay for her.  I’m not cheap, I don’t really care about money at all.   My advice for dating is... money doesn’t matter to me and it shouldn't matter to you... (Guys Tips!) Instead of trying to pay her to like you, let loose the fun, exciting guy inside of you.

Advice for dating...

A woman judges the date by how much she enjoys being around him. Guys believe there are a series of factors that win or lose the girl during the date. It's simply not true. Her body decides if she's attracted to you based on how Alpha Male you are. You do NOT need to entertain her mind.  You want to entertain her body, her instincts. (Advice for Dating!) Her instincts are what control her decisions… not her intelligence (when it comes to boys, anyway!)

I’ve said this before and I’ll say it again and again.  You must create attraction from the inside out.  Once she is attracted to you (which means her body is attracted to you) then creating a matching feeling in her mind is super easy.  Then "how to ask a girl out" or "cute ways to ask a girl out" become so much more easy because she wants you to ask her out. It's now the easy part. You don't need Dates Ideas... she wants it to happen!

But How to ask a girl out still doesn't mean asking a girl to dinner. First thing is... you're paying... which is bad. Again... My advice for dating is still not to care about money... but you should care about how much she enjoys being around you. (Guys Tips!) And if you're buying things for her she will enjoy herself less... trust me.

So let’s go over a few different things…

Does the girl want to date you?

How to ask girl out?

Dates Ideas...

 

These are Guys Ttips that will help you get the girl out with you so you can pass her dating tests.  Where you go on a date doesn’t matter… really it doesn’t.  I’ve taken models to fast food on a date.  Dating isn’t about what most guys think.  (If a girl says she's a model always reply, "A hand model?")

Guys have a belief that there are “steps” to take before a woman will “agree” to become romantically involved with them.  Of course there are steps... but remember that normally guys do not get the girl they are interested in... so their "steps" are not working.

One of the mistakes they make is... they think dating is an important "step."  So they want to know "Cute ways to ask girl out." Dating doesn't create attraction... don't get me wrong, guys create attraction on dates all the time. It's okay if you lose 20 points of attraction when you asked her out if you then added 40 while you were with her. But, understand, asking a girl out and creating attraction have absolutely nothing to do with one another.

Asking women out... for normal guys is all about doing it in a way that's comfortable to them. They have specific Dates and Ideas that they can't part with but those Ideas don't actually help them create attraction. In fact, they probably make her less attracted to those guys.

"How to ask *girl* out?"

The most important element when asking a girl out is to NOT ask them out, but the second most important rule is...

Make sure it sounds like YOU (the guy) are going to have a lot of fun. (Guys Tips!)

Most guys struggle to "sell" a woman on how much fun SHE is going to have. This kind of thinking makes you LESS attractive to women.  This is not what they are looking for. The common man's instinct is to ask in the same safe way that every other guy is asking... why would he think he would get different results? But rather than recognize this lack of knowledge most guys will automatically place the blame elsewhere.

In Dale Carnagie's book How to Win Friends and Influence People he explains using examples of notable people coming to tragic ends because they couldn't recognize their own faults.

Women want to be with men who have fun. Women experience fun through the men they are attracted to.

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Advice for dating: write down all the "questions to ask girls" you're interested in knowing. Then look the list over so you know exactly what NOT to ask her. Why? Like we said earlier, every other guy has the same Dates - Ideas. To her those are boring questions and boring questions mean boring guys.

Want Questions to ask girls that actually work? (Download my FREE ebook: Learn to talk about the things women love)

You can continue to believe what most people believe for no other reason than because you always have.  And you will continue to get the same results you are getting right now. Making more money won't change that. I've met millionaires who repel women. The same with being in fantastic shape.

Those are both great tools for the guy who knows how to create attraction in women... but if you don't have the "know how" - the tools are useless.

If I give you a drill and a hammer and tell you to build a house... same thing. You don't know the steps to building a house so you couldn't even with the tools...

...and you don't know how to talk to women either, so until you change that... the best tools in the world won't help. (Guys Tips!)

"How to ask girl out?".. simple - follow my Advice for Dating... learn what work and what doesn't work. Don't use Boring Guy's "Dates - Ideas" to think about "cute ways to ask girl out..." because you'll never end up dating the girl you want.

Does she want to date you?

*Tips for Flirting*

This one is easy. 

Advice for dating

Questions to ask yourself about girls... Does she invade your space?  Does she hang on every word you say?  Does she go out of her way to continue conversations with you?  Does she find ways to touch you?

This is a simple process... if she’s giving obvious signs.  If you can't tell easily try to gage her by the way she interacts with you.  Note how “connected” she is to you when she converses with you. (connection is a big Advice for Dating buzz word)

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In my book I’ll go through, in detail, the process of a woman becoming attracted to you. 

Something called Indicators of Interest (IOI) are used to distinguish a woman’s level of interest in you. 

By dealing with women in a certain way you force them to react with IOIs so you can gauge how fast or slow to go. I take the idea of needing "cute ways to ask girl out" right out of your head.

Get it now

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Guys Tips! - People usually have a good idea of the interest level from another party.  But if you’re not sure, don’t worry.  I’m going to show you how to ask her in such a way that you take the risk out of the equation.  But the reason I teach you this method is not to keep it safe, that’s just coincidence.  (and Free Advice for Dating!)

This method keeps alarm bells from going off in a girl’s mind… the alarm bells are her body’s way of warning her that you are NOT an Alpha Male.  Those alarms make her put you in the Friend Zone or get away from you no matter how well YOU think you're doing!

Guys Tips!

There is a secret.  I’m going to give it to you and you’re going to have a hard time wrapping your mind around it.  It will answer every caveman-in-training's questions about girls...

Ready?

drum roll...

Can you hear the drum roll in your head?

It's going to shock you a little bit...

So prepare to hear something simple but...

Something you would have never thought of...

Still rolling?

You always make it about you rather than her.  (Advice for Dating!)

You’re probably quite confused by how that sounds to you.  Again, I’m not here to make you feel better about the way you talk to women.  It’s fine with me if you want to continue on hoping for better results but getting the same results.  However I only know how to give advice one way…the way that works. 

Guys put in the Google search box... "How to ask girl out" or "Ways to ask girl out" and want to hear something cute and magical. These guys want to find out that they just needed to make this "one little change" and they will be home free. Their Dates Ideas are not working but they don't think anything is wrong with the way they are doing things... even though they don't ever create uncontrollable reactions in women.

Instead... Let's get to some Guys Tips that will work for anyone. Ready?

How do you make her think about you instead of herself? (Advice for Dating!)

How to ask girl out continued below...

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Here’s an example…
           
Let’s say you just used the palm reading technique from my Free book…

Her:     Wow…that’s great!
You:    Yeah, you seem fun.  The next time I’m doing something fun I’m going to keep you in mind.
Her:     Okay.

At this point I do the “number close” from my book.
IOr if you want the answer to... "how to ask girl out" - right here …

Her:     Wow…that’s great!
You:    I’m going to (blank) Thursday night.  I want you to tag along.

An Alpha Male always lives their lives for themselves. (that's real Advice for Dating!)   When you, a guy, do something different a girl will assume that you are not an Alpha Male and will be less attracted to you.  Alpha Males don’t live their lives for a girl… they live it for themselves.  Girls have to tag along.  (And there’s a POWERFUL reason why they want to - read my book!)

Don’t worry, girls are savvy about the mating ritual.  They know if they agree to go anywhere with you for any reason…it’s a part of the dance.  So if you won't make it exciting for them by forgetting about boring "Dates Ideas" and instead just be Alpha with her then she will find someone else who will.

Here are "ways to ask girl out" by Boring Guy and his best friend Nice Guy...

Listen but don't do …

When guys are searching for "Dates Ideas" they are looking for "cute ways to ask girl out" involving those questions up there. Think about those things up there. What you're doing is trying to bribe a girl into liking you. Rather than asking her to like you for you. If she likes you because you took her to the State Fair is she going to still like you when you stop?

Because you've already lowered your value in her eyes by asking her to go with you... so if you don't continue to pay for things (forever!) she has no good reason to stay with you.

I make sure the girl likes me, by refusing to do those things for her. I throw out the "cute ways to ask girl out" and the "Dates Ideas" that don't work. And replace them with Advice for Dating that really works. (You must read Attraction)

It’s true that guys get girls to go out with them using theeir same old llines.  But don’t misunderstand my point.  You see, these girls would also have agreed had the guy asked my way… the difference?  Using my method girls will say yes far more often and they willl be far more attracted to the guy.

Which would you prefer?

How to ask girl out? - There are lots of things that will get you two “out” together.  But don’t you want to be out with her knowing you've already built up her level of attraction?  Don’t you want to be able to create an uncontrollable reaction in her?  Don’t you want her to remember you for the rest of her life? Then throw out "Dates Ideas" that don't work. Use Guys Tips and Advice for Dating that does work.

Attraction leads to her wanting you... instead of you wanting her.  

So I ask her to tag along with me and I say it like I don’t care how she answers.  Sometimes I’ll break the date and remake it for another day…just to create tension.  Tension in a woman is the only way to create attraction.

Advice for Dating note: Not caring about things gives her just the right amount of tension... caring TOO MUCH about things gives her TOO MUCH tension and her body will cause her to want to flee.

I’ll say things like, “Listen, I’m gonna let you hang out with me but try to control yourself…I barely even know you.”  She will usually play along and say something like… “I’ll try to control myself.”  But whatever she says, I know I’ve created attraction… I don’t need evidence.  I’ve repeated the process so many times that the end result is the only proof I require.

 

What should you do on a date?

Questions to ask girls...

Here’s another curious answer.  It doesn’t matter.  Movies, mini golf, picnic, dinner, lunch, coffee, book store, etc.  It’s how you take a girl out, not where.  (Advice for Dating!)

But what is important is...

You do NOT take a girl to a place she has been before.  You can take her to Starbucks but NOT to a Starbucks she already goes to.  The more strange the place to her the better.  This is not a "where" thing…it’s a "how" thing. The only question to ask her is... "Have you been there?" (Guys Tips!)

Maybe you're thinking... what if she doesn't like that place? But if you are thinking that I hope you realize that kind of thinking goes against my Advice for Dating. And my Advice for Dating works... all the time. She wants to go with you and she wants you to tease and flirt with her. (See Flirting) But she doesn't care where you go... as long as you seem like you know what you're doing when you get there.

If you go to a place she's already familiar with... then she feels comfortable. A girl feeling comfortable with her surroundings is very, very bad for you. Because when a girl is comfortable she can dismiss a guy much easier.  By taking her to a strange place you cause her to experience a raise in tension.  (Guys Tips !) But by acting like an Alpha Male - like you're comfortable in this new place you will cause her tension to go down and her comfort level to go back up. That's exhibiting the powerful Alpha Trait - Control Over Her World. And she will feel more attracted to you for it.

I hope you've forgotten about "How to ask girl out" and "Questions to ask girls" and instead concentrated on portraying that you think she's cute and silly... that you like cute and silly so she "gets to" hang out with you while YOU do something fun.

Tension

Keep in mind you don’t want her tension to go through the roof… because she will be convinced that you will be unable to protect her. The best way to control a woman's tension is to advertise that you just don't care. That signals to her that you don't feel any danger from her, your surroundings or any unseen enemies. (Didn't know it was that primal... did you?)

But if you raise her tension a little, then mix in flirting and the rules of attraction you’ll get MUCH better results than you’re used to getting.  You’ll be surprised at how good attraction feels.  It’s very likely that it’s different than anything you’ve experienced before. (Advice for Dating!)

The next step is HOW you make her feel at ease in a new place. 

But first read these questions below. They are more questions to ask girls by Boring Guy and his friend Nice guy...

This is how you FAIL to make a girl feel comfortable…

These are questions to ask girls that will lower her attraction for you...

Besides throwing away your Dates Ideas and Questions to ask girls...

...here are a few more ways to demonstrate Alpha and create attraction in a woman that’s your wife or someone you’ve just met for the first time.

Don’t hesitate to put these into play. (Guys Tips!)   They work really well and they have some amazing results that we haven’t discussed.  Not only will these things help you create attraction in women… but by doing things that Alpha Males do... you will slowly become an Alpha Male. 

Everyone is attracted to the presence of an Alpha Male.  In every walk of life and every kind of job. So enjoy this and know that by using these things you are becoming the very best version of yourself!

And stop wondering "How to ask a girl out" and start wondering how to create uncontrollable reactions in women!

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