Seduction
Here's the idea...
“I know I’m at the right spot. It’s the right time and there is this pause…but we’ve been having a good time so I know I’m okay. Only I don’t know what to do exactly. I don't know how to move from Attraction to Seduction.
We were casually talking on her front porch after going out to a movie and I'm looking at her… she’s really close, maybe two or three feet.”(please learn to Flirt!)
“And I think...What should I do? How do I actually kiss her or maybe make her want to invite me into her place?”
I hear this a lot. I used to advertise and help people one person at a time. Like a life coach… the thing is… becoming Alpha Male scares guys. It’s a step they don’t want to take. Why? Well, they’re comfortable with their fear.
No amount of relationship advice will help them...
No one wants to get rid of an old friend: fear. But flirting tips, dating advice and attraction secrets are useless if you're not intersted in changing. But what they want to do is be able to move from that awkward moment to kissing her. Most of the time they assume that if they can kiss a girl…they can seduce and sleep with her soon enough.
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Well, it happens enough that you can think that. But there will be plenty of times when she loses interest between the kiss and the roll in the sheets. But if a guy is paying me and he just wants to know how to make the first move on a girl… well… who am I to argue?
But…to tell the truth… seduction starts the minute you meet a girl. It’s why I stress flirting. The act of flirting introduces your intentions of of having sex with her. If you use any behavior other than Alpha Male behavior she sees your interest in a non-sexual way. (Seduction Secret!)
But just being in front of a girl… lets you know that you still have a chance. Just keep trying things, if you’re not sure what to do. But sooner or later if you’re not sure what you’re doing… you’ll make a mistake.
The question is… can you recover from that mistake?
If you Flirt and Attract in the right way then Seduction is the natural next step. That’s from the point of view of the woman… in fact she will be confused if you flirt with her, build attraction and then do not move onto seduction. (Dating Tip!)
So for the sake of moving to the next step… when you can tell a girl is interested in doing something…
Simply ask her, “Would you like to kiss me?” (Attraction key!)
Unless she right out says “No” then the answer is “Yes”. That means if she says, “I don’t know…” you say… “Let’s find out” and kiss her.
She’ll be blown away by that. I assure you… it probably hasn’t happened before.
It activates instinct in her…as I explain in my book in detail women react in predictable ways… if you react in Alpha Ways to her… it will cause tension… you can then turn that tension into Attraction. (Attraction Secret!)
Once you kiss a woman… let her know that you’re having trouble controlling yourself. And because of how you have already been flirting (my way) she will know that you are usually IN CONTROL of yourself... so she must assume she is causing it! This will satisfy her need to know if you want her to join your pack... how could she think otherwise when you seem to be so excited by her.
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Flirting -- Attraction -- Seduction
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When you get to the point of sex… your hands are working her body over and you want to have sex. Make sure you’re doing this somewhere other than on your bed.
Then just get up…and stick out your hand for her to take. She’ll know exactly what it means. If she takes it…silently walk toward your bed…pulling her along. She’ll follow. (Dating Tip!)
The key to seduction is… never hesitate or imply that you’re questioning if something is okay. Don’t worry about it. She’ll let you know if it’s not. If you try to anticipate her behavior she WILL notice and she will perceive it as weak Beta Male behavior. She expects you to have sex the way you like…she’ll enjoy that more than anything else. (Seduction Secret!)
But keep in mind… knowing sexual techniques and “moves” really ups your value. Once you are having sex your way… if it impresses her… she will be that much easier to deal with. The more prowess you seem to have the more she will want to submit to your control. If she moves from a position of medium tension to a position of low tension because of you she will increase her attraction toward you.
Of course Seduction must now follow that attraction. For a short while not moving to the seduction phase will cause her some tension - which is good. But before too long that tension will become high... high tension is NOT good. Because it is not uncontrollable causing her to flee.
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